I have worded a lot, so I probably made it sound a bit hectic. Thank you. People say keep it simple and breach it anyway. This is why I am finding out the guidelines. I need evidence. It's from the meetings that 2 members are in with the same people visiting meetings I go to. I'm pretty sure 1 has shared with their sponsee who is a newcomer. I will keep on with my research. It's something I want to understand. It doesn't consume my thoughts. It is actually quite a big deal, it can have negative effects on someone else in recovery. Also in a private social media local meetings group only this morning, I noticed someone had just found out their partner had been having an affair with someone else in recovery. Which is awful for her and must be very emotionally distressing. She named both and broke their anonymity. So I was just wondering what kind of anonymous group AA is. Thanks for your response.