I agree with you, SeriousKarma and SparkleKitty.
I wanted to talk about Step 7 and then I reached out to her earlier this week because my feelings were hurt (AH broke a watch that I gave to him some years ago and man, I know the hurt is mine but it felt like he may have well just broke the watch in front of me and at me. Then for a little while I wanted him to fix my hurt feelings.) She didn't want to talk about that stuff. :/ Not very supportive or compassionate. Thank goodness I have a therapist.
Her reasoning was that she thinks if I'm more compassionate of AH then life will be easier for me. I still don't understand what that means. I'm not resentful of him or even blaming him for anything, and especially not with his recent relapse.