What does compassion have to do with the price of tea in China? Where in the twelve steps does it say we have to be compassionate of our addicts?
Isn't she suppose to be helping you work the steps? What steps is she using? Her own?
Allow me to play a little dime store psychology on her. I would just bet that she, herself, struggles with compassion, and she's throwing all of her personal baggage onto you. Trying to play puppet master with you instead of solving her own problems.
What really bothers me is that she spent 30 minutes talking on your dime. Sounds a bit "conversation greedy" to me. Not very compassionate of her.