There's some great advice here IamMeursault2me
I wasn't in a relationship when I quit but I was a drinker for 20 years and I had the wreckage of long term relationships and breakups to deal with.
I had to learn that the timetable for forgiving me and trusting me again wasn't mine to set.
That was really hard for me, because I really wanted everything to be great and good again.
I'm kinda glad it happened tho because it drove home to me what was important to me and how much I wanted to keep special people in my life.
It also taught me a little patience, which for me, was a great thing to learn
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