I posted this in that forum too just now, thank you. Also, I know noone can tell me what will happen but hopefully there are some people on here that can shed some light on what the expierence is like and how I can be better prepared and what things were like when their loved one came home. We are just waiting for a bed to be avaliable then he will be outta jail and into a rehab. Hopfully will hear some news soon!