My post was to everyone, including you dunkelheit.
All that 'any of you ladies' stuff and 'PM me if you're pissed' is what I call 'a come at me bro' approach - and it invites a similar response in return.
That's called flame baiting and it's against our rules.
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I would have preferred not to have to explain myself again, but there ya go.
If posters are making you mad, use the ignore function, or report the post.
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