Wow Maria! Sounds like a tough situation. If this guy has been in recovery for a while, he should know better than to try to push a relationship on you. Sounds like you did the right thing, though, by being honest with him and letting him know how you felt about the situation. My only advice would be to keep doing what you are doing. Maybe make yourself a little bit "unavailable" when he might ask for rides or something. Perhaps if you put him off long enough he will get bored and find someone else to harass. Have you spoken with your sponsor? Best of luck. I am sure it will work out okay just as long as you keep doing the right thing!