my sponsor asks me to write lists of things that have "gotten better" since leaving my addict ex bf when I'm feeling sad and lonely. Your list reminded me a lot of them.
Some other things (if I may chime in)
I don't miss coming home from work and checking his pupils obsessively
I don't miss coming home from work to him laying around on the couch in sweats all day
I don't miss the name calling
I can expect a clean house when I come home from work
I can expect to trust those who visit me at my house to not be under the influence
I can expect to be treated lovingly by friends and family
Thank you for helping me shift my perspective!