My daughter was so upset last night over what seemed like such a non issue. But her feelings were real. She had to go through her process...then she started talking to me about being reactive vs proactive...and how that bothered her because sometimes it just feels good to react. Anyway, after talking, philosophising I told her that I believe happiness is a choice. Yes, we can sit around and wait for 'things/people' to make us happy, or we can choose to BE happy. Anyway, good post.