teatreeoil007, that makes perfect sense! The younger girlfriend is all part of his addiction because she allows him to keep living in denial and not have to face up to anything that he has done! I am even more convinced that he's still using, despite his words saying the opposite. I have learnt so much about judging an addict's behaviour and not their words!! Knowing that she regularly drinks and smokes cannabis proves exactly why he's attracted to her - she validates what HE is doing!!
Thank you for this. x