It's none of my business how others perceive or refer to me in the third person .
My sobriety is solid and i don't let the flibberty-jibbert make me feel up or down as there are always up's and down's to be dealt with on my journey .
Someones race, sexuality, physical limitations or religion are sometimes crude but swift, short hand way to describe someone, at least they are talking about you and are, in as far as it goes interested enough to talk about you and it seems in a decent enough kind of way, not spiteful.
Some of us are terribly boring K and don't have anything much to say about anything and don't have others referring to us
Total acceptance of everything leaves you in a odd place where you don't desire much .
What change do you hope to bring about ? Is it possible ? or do you just accept it and move on ?
Bestwishes, m