(((We))), sending prayers! I agree with Dee and the old-timer. You've done everything you can and it may be best for you to disengage - and it sounds like that is what you are trying to do. At times like that I tend to feel like just one more try will do it but that can be wishful thinking. You are a very caring person and this is very hard stuff that hits close to home because of our own past drinking.
Marcher, I'd love to come over to sample some strawberry chia loaf! And more important, to finally meet you :-). Happy to hear you are having a beautiful day.
Diggie, always good to hear from you!
Toots, how is the tooth?
Cheers to all!