Hi.
I got over that guy as soon as I had some space and my emotions caught up with what I knew.
I have actually met someone really nice. We can talk and giggle for hours really easily. I wasn't drinking when we first met and he was cool with that. It is ideal as he also really wants to take it very slow as we both have some stuff to work out. It's a little dose of feeling happy with no pressure and plenty of time to be myself and still have my own space.
Guess which idiot is potentially risking screwing it up by getting too drunk and calling or texting saying dumb stuff that does not even represent what they think and feel? Hoping I have not scared him off already as drunk me can be hard work.