Take her back?
I don't understand why she has to put a name on it. She's a lot more program than I am or ever will be, though she's not a thumper. I think she feels like she can't talk to me about the program as much as she would like unless I'm "in it," and if I'm "in it" she wants to sponsor me "in it." Which in a way is fine, because I'm never going to go through the freaking steps with anyone else, so if I'm going to have a sponsor, it's her. I just don't like the formality of it. But I don't like any formalities, do I? -- degrees, certificates, titles, rules, laws...