Originally Posted by
Catareta 
It's been done at home. So nurse comings in 4 times a day.
So I am left to support him - needs 72hr supervision.. Scared and pissed off due to the fact he expects me to do it all.
How much would it normally cost to hire someone to do this kind of work? How much is your time worth where you don't resent this? is there a way to REWARD you for it. If he doesn't have the money can you help him post a fundraiser to pay for your time. Why not create a job out of this so at least you get paid to do work. What is it worth to you, or can he hire a local student intern who wants a career in this type of work?
NOTE there are a number of low cast or even free fundraising sites for emergency needs like medical costs. redbasket.org youcaring.com also gofundme , modestneeds.org etc.