Boy he sure doesn't like taking personal responsibility does he? Jarp, I don't think I have seen anyone work as hard as you have to be supportive of this man. Enough is enough. He has a mountain of tools at his disposal to cope in a healthy way with life. He has made the choice to drink instead. Make no mistake he has chosen this. No one lead him, pushed him or coerced him. He chose to relapse. He chooses to drink.