Originally Posted by
Pebbles2012 
I had a similar situation with my wife. There was always damage control the day after when she drank and took out everything on me. After yrs of this I told her I was sick of apologies. I'm sorry you are going through the same issues. Unbelievable that a relationship that had such promise can be killed a slow painful death by addiction. It's no wonder that very little contact with the addict is so liberating.
Yes, and it's unfortunate that I have to raise a special needs child with this one. I feel like I'm always on edge trying to keep my job yet keep my son healthy and secure despite the fact that he's 16. Life is hard and dealing with a crazy alcoholic makes it harder.