I don't want to announce 30 days in case I slip. I don't want to announce 60 days in case I slip. I don't want to announce 90 days in case I slip. Maybe in a year I might announce it but what if I relapse after that? Then it would be a premature celebration.
With all that above, the one one thing I hear the most is that I am PLANNING to relapse. I'm just not exactly sure when.
How about getting away from that thinking and quit for good. All this one day at a time thing always leaves tomorrow open in my opinion.
Stay away from the people who believe that relapse is a part of recovery. It is not. And thinking that if you quit going to meetings you will relapse is a great disservice to people who attend meetings in early sobriety.