We make friends with one another on the internet, Since everything is anonymous we generally do not communicate otherwise except for what are known as private messages, which are on the internet and yet accessible only to sender and receiver.
You aren't a "victim". If you are an alcoholic you have an illness which you can do something about and which generally benefits from help from others, either personally or on the internet. If you do nothing about the illness it usually gets worse and worse until everyone knows about it and your life is an unhappy mess. There's lots of wisdom and support on SR. We can help you.
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