Nice post. I am trying so hard to Let go, and be let go of. My divorce is final as of a month ago, but because we are trying to remain "friends" for our kids, I still find myself wondering what he's doing and being more attached than I want to be. I wish it would just stop. I feel like I can't control my thoughts. I still need to detach as well. I know this. Always has been the hardest thing for me to do and figure out too. I find it interesting that I come on here after a month or so, having all these complicated thoughts, and here it is...so many topics/threads on detaching today...a message from above??