I think praying for them helps. I also visualize placing them in their Higher Power's hands, and trust that they ARE being cared for. That helped me a lot with letting go of my second husband. I still get nervous when I hear he has called (the last time was a couple of years ago when he called my old office but never called here), but that's more a reason to just stay away from him. I don't want to reawaken old hurts, and it's better this way. I don't hate him, I wish him the best, but if I never see/hear from him again I will be fine.