Ok so here's the rub. I let da have 2 sips of moscato when I had a glass of wine out recently. He told his dad and my x is now using this against me because he claims it was only a few sips of beer. The way my son acted, though, you'd think he had committed a crime. Anyway I don't know if my son is over reacting or if he's playing me or if X is thing the truth.
Either way, x told me not to play this game and threatened to document my actions against me; how I would get pedicures during the day while my son did schoolwork at home, or would play tennis, etc.
Honestly it's all twisted because he used to force me to get out of the house and let our son stay home alone to get work done so I started leaving. It's like a big game to him and he needs me to lose!
Anyway I did make an appointment for our son with a counselor so I figure it's just one step at a time.