Originally Posted by
Debbie329 
I would run from that woman.....she is not your friend.......she's the enemies friend. My brothers discount whatever I say regarding childhood abuse......infact they participated in this abuse and I've called them out on it........anyway I call it gaslighting......so I simply don't talk to them anymore cause their behavior and opinions **** me off.
For some reason I think you feel you need to be validated by her......screw that.....validate yourself.
My thoughts, except you said it much more politely than I was thinking!
don't give her any of your energy... take care of you. some things are best left behind us.
hugs
chicory