Originally Posted by
Refiner 
What jjj said. If you walk away you remove the fuel to her fire. I would set that boundary immediately and not even wait for her to drop the next atom bomb. Would be best while she's sober and NOT in the attack mode, actually.
Are you suggesting I know when she has or has not been drinking?
For the record, oftentimes I am not - unless it is after 5 or 6pm when I can just assume she has started. As for other times, all bets are off.