Update: AH was taken to a hospital 2 hours away this morning to detox. After that he goes into a treatment center for up to two months, according to the home health people that arranged it. The problem was I was supposed to fly this morning to visit my terminal mother. He was very ill detoxing the hours before going to hospital and all of it was draining. I did talk to airline and since I could prove he went to the hospital, they waived the flight change fee. Thank God. So, I'm going Thursday. It's just so peaceful at home and work now. And I really do want AH to get better and healthy. If there was no intervention, he would have died soon. So I do feel better and at least DCF should leave me alone for a while.