Yes 18 years we have been married for almost 7 of those years. We have been together since we were 16 years old! I guess that is why it is so hard.
I think I always kind of knew he had a problem but we were young and I thought he would grow out of it and I would never have guessed it would get this bad. I started to notice it more after our daughter was born as I was not going out much myself but his life didn't change for the best it just spiralled out of control even more
