Hi Tangled! I'm sorry you're going through this right now. I can say I know some of what you feel. My ex and I broke up after 4 years and I'm devastated. I couldn't imagine losing someone after 18 years. Please hang in there!! I can't believe his family hasn't tried to contact you to see how their granddaughter is doing.. as well as "YOU", knowing the disease that he has. I'm so sorry!! *HUGS* to you!!