Well I have not had any contact with him for the last 3 weeks only with regard to our daughter as he takes her one night a week and rings her every night when he is not out drinking (he forgets all about her when he is drinking and has on occasion not showed up for her because it). I had to have no contact with him as the last time we spoke he upset me so much I ended up having to go to the doctor as I started having panic attacks so it is better that way.
I am staying well back now and let his parents put up with him! What hurts the most is that his family know what I have been putting up with and they haven't called once to see how we are doing and we always got on very well
