I really appreciate all of you and your support.
I have no friends as we have recently moved from Seattle to San Francisco... I may have to get a hotel and fly the kids home for the summer.
I am not sure what i am going to do yet but I am surely glad that you are all receptive to me on this subject. I have been listening to her tell me that her drinking is my fault. Her drinking is because I have caused turmoil... My head hurts from all the blame and narcissism.
Sounds like I will also need to hire a lawyer to help me protect the kids. CPS is not a good thing and once that process starts there is no good outcome... but in reading my post I can see what the situation looks like.
Again, thank you all for your support!!!