I'm really glad you're enjoying the windows as well as finding the readings useful!
As far as options and having them or not, I remember someone used to have a sig line that said "You don't have a problem, just answers you don't like." And yes, as much as I hate to admit it, that is usually the case for me when I feel I have no choices...I HAVE them, they just aren't what I WANT to do. They are difficult or uncomfortable or icky in some way!