Dax-That's great to hear about your grandson and the horseback riding..Kids bring so much love and joy into our lives and I'm sure the horseback riding is invigorating and brings peace!!! (When I had filed for divorce, my husband's younger co-worker went after him during this period, so I understand some of what you are going through)..I would love my husband's co-worker to find a new job, but I have come to the conclusion that anytime my husband wants to leave he can not let the door kick him in the -ss! ha ha That's a good way to look at it! Take care!