Great advice... thanks. But just not sure about not "forcing" her. You just don't know my wife. Normal person to a degree, but procrastination takes up the most space in her "weird bag". Hell, if she ran outta booze, she might just stop drinking, that is, if she didn't go to the store for groceries - - - and I'm only half-kidding here.
Just deleted a long story - but suffice it to say someone who left a shaving kit here during a visit would have a foot-long beard if they waited for her to return it by mail. I only reminded her 6 or 7 times...
A few nudges may be required here ;-)