Originally Posted by
Refiner 
Thx for checking back in, Bob. So is she dragging her feet? I couldn't tell from your post. I think you're putting too much stock in baby stepping around your son's feelings, too. Perhaps at this stage of his life he would like to be talked with like "a man" and you not try to hide Mommy's little dark secrets anymore from him?
For some that may be the case, but he is resistant to discussion like this. The secrets will come soon enough, I am sure. Would rather Mom get on board before trying to drag him into it - especially b/c I am all but certain he doesn't want to be!