Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
Bob, admitting you have a problem is step one. If she truly sees that and wants to do something about it, then there you go. It truly is one teeny step at a time. I think everyone here wants to protect you and your son, and on a forum such as this, sometimes it comes across as harsh or pushy when meant from the heart.
I am so glad you are doing things for you, and your son. I hope your wife embraces recovery and will pray for you and your family that happens. In the mean time, continue taking care of you and your fine boy!!!
XXX
Thank you Hopeful4, from the bottom of my heart
And all those who have also offered words of encouragement and prompting; Please pardon if I got too snippy when I felt pushed too hard. Just getting to 'step one' has been (and still is) a big deal, a big step. I do understand and feel your good intentions and am hugely grateful, even if I might bark back a little. I'm sure you remember being "back in the day..."