Originally Posted by
megsykreeg 
I completely understand where u are. I think if he's asking that's a good sign that he's really working on his sobriety and think u should tell him. I only wish my AH would actually care enough to know what he's done while drunk. Even when he's been sober for a period of time he never really did steps 8 and 9 with me. I would still remain cautious and let him prove himself. U have nothing yo be ashamed of.
Awe... thanx Megsy! I was a little surprised that he actually asked me. I know how many of us need this type of closure or experience. Heck, I have bones to pick with a few exes of mine... most of which I have just had to learn to let go. To let go of money owed, explanations owed, an apology.... most of which I never got. So, I am leery of what will come of me telling my xabf these things...