Hopeless, it's great to meet you. I'm very happy to know that through this rough time you've managed to get sober. We know how difficult that must have been.
I understand all too well how two people who love each other can end up in a terrible state - all because of alcohol. I agree with the others though - and I'm glad you're concentrating on getting your life together. Good things will follow. Congratulations on your one month sober - be proud of yourself for that.