I am headed for an al-anon or nar-anon meeting tomorrow or Thurs. Getting myself to fully understand this not my problem or in my control is so difficult when I have my parents being used by him. Ultimately I feel responsible for them as they are in their 70's and 80's. I also had a Dr. tell me I was as bad as any enabler if I didn't confront him. Financially I provide him nothing.
Confronting him is nothing short of scary at this point.
Thank you for your prayers and support. It is truly helpful.
