And valid answer. I work around alcohol on a daily basis so understand your dilemma at least somewhat. Though luckily my exposure is at least all outside my home. But it's my job and it's all I really know how to do that brings in enough money for me to live on for now. Though getting out of the restaurant/bar business is definitely on my midterm goals.
If your husband has been open to removing booze from the house before, maybe that's something to be considered again? At least for the short term. Sounds like an awfully close call at lunch today. Glad you pulled thru and thanks for answering my question.