I have a step sponsor and spiritual sponsor. This just sort of worked out this way. My first sponsor attempted to make suggestions/requests/demands outside of the principles of AA.
I called BS, he got upset and we took a time out. Now, I consider him a good friend.
This is your journey - no one else's.
What is
His will for you, that's the only sponsor you need concern yourself with
go spin, stay sober and live life!