The 12th step does contain the language "practice these principles in all our affairs", so we do need to gradually bring our new knowledge to the workplace also. Can you give some examples of how you feel your job clashes with the principles of Alanon? Are you taking on responsibilities that aren't really yours? Are you not taking time for yourself to rest and regroup throughout the day? Maybe if you can be specific about "problem areas", we can come up with some ideas for you.