Originally Posted by
GroundhogDay 
Stewy, do you feel that your job is too difficult for you? Or is it boring? Does it collide with your values? Analyzing what the problem is will help in finding a solution. More training? Look for a different job? Do try to avoid conflict with your girlfriend. Do the shopping and meals. And find something to look forward to at the end of the day after work and chores are done. Go for a walk, read a good book, or make plans to improve your situation. I have reinvented myself a couple of times during my career.
The job is full of basic tasks, a whole lot of them. Mix that with a lot of difficult situations to navigate and a lot of pressure both from my manager and the people I manage. It is extremely boring at times and then very stressful at other times. I'm feeling like I'm now marked due to talking to them about the spell of depression I experienced- 4 months off has really set me back.
I don't seem to have the energy to do anything when I return home