I get why you feel that way DD but for me tarring every alcoholic with the same brush is a little like saying don't date redheads.?
If all recovering alcoholics were like you or me it would be fine
Cyndi, I think, if he's the perfect guy, but you're not ready, then maybe he's not the perfect guy?
Maybe he'll be around when you are ready or maybe you'll find someone better - who knows?
D