Many years later it’s hard to figure, when I was ready it worked because I put the toys away and started to listen to how sobriety was accomplished back then. Basically I don’t pick up the first drink and go to many meetings, listen and get active. While doing this, work on changes needed doing like the above and more. A lot I didn’t like but for my benefit did anyway.
The above has led me to a long term recovery in which I’m comfortable in my own skin most of the time and continue 3-5 meetings a week for insurance because we’re all capable of a relapse and I like to see my old friends and perhaps help another alcoholic.
BE WELL