You may want to look into some other programs such as SMART Recovery
http://www.smartrecovery.org Lifering
http://unhooked.com or some of the others you can find listed in the "12 step alternative" section on the forum. Here is the link, the list is a bit overwhelming!!
http://www.soberrecovery.com/links/a...sto12step.html Good luck and keep posting!! This is another good site with info about alternative programs
http://rrci.net/recovery_spectrum.htm