No. That's not my pattern. I committed for the first time to sobriety on March 16 of last year. I didn't drink for 13 months. Nothing, not a drop! Then 3 weeks ago o had a couple with his sister and new boyfriend, with dinner. So NO. They KNOW I am serious. They also both know that I feel great about sobriety. I am more confident than ever. My hubby just wants me to drink so we can "be at the same level", that's what he says. They know I am serious. They just don't get it. I'm starting to feel like they are a couple of lamoes...