I have been there, sure thing. At times I still slip back to "parenting" my AH.
You are both early in recovery.
My suggestion, enjoy the fact that you are both working a program.
Enjoy your space while he is working, this will give yourself the time you need to focus on YOUR recovery.
In early recovery I was full of emotions and like Lexi said, it takes time. After working your program for a while you will know what you need to do.
Hugs to you!