((((Hug ))))
This is not about him, it's about YOU and you are the only one that has power over this situation. If you want to stop being shot with these arrows, take the target off of you back. Sounds like the girl has more common decency and respect for you than he did. Move if you have to, go to other beaches, reach out to this forum each time you get tempted, do whatever it takes, but stay away from this man.