Even knowing my STBXAH is full of it and making stuff up, it is still horrible and distressing when he spews it when we meet with the lawyers - because they don't know and believe him. In addition to denying he has a drinking problem, he said I am a hyperactive parent who forces too many activities on DS - when he did NOTHING with DS all these years. It's like living with a venomous snake - you know they will bite (quack) but it's still a sickening shock when they do it in front of others and say this stuff like they really believe it themselves.