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Old 05-12-2015, 01:53 PM
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healthyagain
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Yeah, many times, did not take me seriously. Told him two weeks ago, and ended calling the local DV line because he was beyond mean. Told him half an hour ago again, could not take his play pretend niceness. He said, "I figured, you said so before." (????????) He did not cause any trouble YET. I went to the store after I told him, felt like crying. Still do. Told him for the last time I feel like he had two wives (in the marriage he denied twice for the past 6 months) and that I need time to reconsider my life. Did not mention divorce again, but I am sure "He figured. I said so before."

So this denial is somewhere along the lines, "If I close my eyes and pretend she is not there, she will go away."
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