Originally Posted by
Earthworm 
Well it's bad in the sense it's self destructive to you.
But classic in the sense it's what a lot of co-dependents end up doing, giving away their personal power to other people. Expecting others to make them feel good.
:/ yes, I see it. And I feel bad for it but all I can do now is to start to change it so it won't get worse over time and I end up married to someone who won't care about me...